We have now semi settled into a routine. I still wish I had more sleep and more energy to do more things in the day. But we all make do with what we have. So I should not complain... for now. J is feeding well about every 3 hrs at night, during the day... well I lost count. I find that having a second child you are less worried about little gurgling noises the little one makes.
I have realised that mum's shouldn't be critical about other mothers in general....

Cupcake seems to be the best way to celebrate  the occasion, much to P's delight.